~Romans 12:14 Bless them which persecute you: bless, and curse not.
It is not a natural thing for us to obey this verse. However, we have a new nature.
~2 Corinthians 5:17 Therefore if any man be in Christ, he is a new creature: old things are passed away; behold, all things are become new.
Our old nature that desires to sin, to bicker, etc. is the same nature that thinks we are right and everyone else is wrong. This same old nature is not willing to be taught that it is better to be at peace. However, the new nature given to us at salvation does not need to yield itself to the reactions of the “old man.”
Granted Paul’s letter to the Romans is talking about being persecuted for the faith. Remember Nero and how he persecuted the early Christians and many were martyred for their faith. We are not at the point in our United States. The persecutions of faith that we see from day-to-day is that of family and friends who disagree with our relationship with Christ. They are religious but they do not have that relationship and, thus, do not understand why we are excited about our faith.
It is in these persecutions that we must remember with what we are dealing. They need Christ – they need salvation – they need to hear the blessed Gospel of mercy! How can they hear it if we are at odds with them? Can our boldness lead them in the opposite direction? Sometimes in our boldness we are passing judgment. It is not for us to judge but for God and God alone.
~Psalm 50:6 And the heavens shall declare his righteousness: for God is judge himself. Selah.
Therefore, it is up to us to show Christ to our family and friends. Yes, Christ was not hesitant in pointing sin. I believe that we should be remember that once we were as our lost family members and friends. In fact, we still sin. With this merciful approach, we can keep the doors of communication open.
When we rely on the Holy Spirit to lead us, He will place someone in our path that He wishes for us to speak to. When that opportunity presents itself, the Holy Spirit will prepare the heart of that person to hear what He would have you to say. When a heart is ready to hear the blessed Gospel, our words filled with mercy and grace will point them to the Cross and the Holy Spirit will be able to do His job!